Divorced......... ehhhhh 06/05/2014

So this is my life, like my real life, and its drama filled, Im choosing to share it because sometimes I think this CANT be life lol. I cant start from the beginning but ill try to get cha up to speed. So heres the deal the divorce is FINAL! Yes divorce.

Im 28, i got married when I was about................25. To the rebound guy if you ask me. I swear i was in love tho I really do, i had to be! My ex (Eden) and me had broke up like Nov 2010. I met my ex husband (omg that makes me sound old) June 2010 on my bday matter of fact. He was best friends with my bffs boyrfriend, read it again it'll make sense. I didnt pay him anymind all summer. I celebrated my birthday in my hometown but I lived 3.5 hrs away so to me it was pointless. Anywho me and Eden had drama the whole summer and was off and on and by

November I was willing to give Cam (ex hubby) a chance. January 2011 we wed. lol We were having the time of our lives, traveling, partying, humping, hanging with friends. And before you knew it in March I was transferring my job to my hometown so we could move in together. I work for a govt agency so transfers are pretty easy when you are married and your spouse lives in another location.

 It went downhill from there tho, once I moved Cam came with the BS. He lost his job, I had to foot all the bills mostly, he didnt want me hanging wih my friends as much (unless he could come too). He got EXTREMELY insecure about any and everything and our whole dynamic changed. At this point Im thinking "annullment" but guess what popped up...... a baby! I found out at 7 wks and lost it at 8 weeks. Etopic pregnancy look it up. It bought us closer, but I also was taking it as a sign that maybe I shouldnt have children by him. By the time I digested that I got preggo again.

This one made the cut (I LOVE HIM!) my baby boy is almost 2 now :) Cam STILL wasnt working, he had gotten 2 jobs, then quit because he didnt like them, He had 2 other children, by 2 other women, none of which I didnt know when we got married, but the picture he painted was a little clearer this ish was blurry as crap now.

So its now 2014. I got fed up i got divorced. Eden is back in contact, a few others, which we will get into one by one, and I dont feel bad because IM DIVORCED. im free again, a single parent but free nonetheless. i had no business getting married that soon, its not for everyone, but it was a lesson learned. Cam isnt taking it so lightly, he like wont give up, he thinks i filed divorce "to teach him a lesson" i dont spend $1000.00 to teach lessons there are cheaper options. He had a really good job this year tho, missed a courtdate for child support (not by me another kid) an they locked him up for a few days and wa-la job lossed!

 Welcome to our world!