Happy New Year!
Sorry I have been off for about a month, so obviously my
blog was neglected L
doesn’t mean life stopped though! So much has happened in a month and I am
happy about all of it! I guess there’s nowhere to start but the beginning, so let’s
back track to December!
I had decided to take Baby Boy to see the Christmas lights,
I know every city has this, where you drive through and they have a display of
lights? It’s pretty cool and I invited Deacon to go too. Off tops, he was
moody, I asked him to drive and he wouldn’t, he could’ve drove my car but he
was pretty adamant on being a passenger. We got 10 seconds from my house and
BOOM! I hit someone’s car, totally my fault. Texting at a red light and took
off and hit this ladies car. It was actually pretty dramatic and I couldn’t help
but laugh, no damage was done but she was so mad. Deacon had gotten out handling
everything and for that, I was grateful. He ended up telling me to move to the passenger’s
seat. We could have done that from jump and skipped the accident!
No really I am aware that this was an awful thing to happen
and could have been way worst and trust me I learned my lesson. We went on to
get Baby Boy from school and to see the lights and that is the last time I saw
Deacon! Lol, needless to say he’s finito! The arguing and everything finally
got to me. I was in a place where I was always trying to either impress him, or
not piss him off, and honestly, that was exhausting. I did not know we were
done then though I thought it was another one of our weeklong hiatus’s we take
and then make up. I skipped town for Christmas with my family and he finally
contacted me, it started off ok, but of course it didn’t last. He had said he
still wanted to spend time with Baby Boy. And at first I didn’t mind it, so
when we got back in town I let him know. His response was “Well I’m not coming
over there, you can bring him here for a few hours if you need to do something”.
Negro! You are not going to negotiate MY child with me and how you see him. I
just responded ok and never bought it back up. I did ask for my key back though.
His response “I threw that out the window weeks ago”. Really? That was like the
nail in the coffin, why throw it away, you are close to 40 you couldn’t just
return my darn key? By New Year’s Eve I was over Deacon and ready to leave him
in 2014 and decided I would. He texted me “Happy New Year” I did not respond.
He texted me 2 days ago “Hope all is well with you and Baby Boy and that this
year brings you much joy and happiness” I did not respond. No thanks and good
riddance!
Eden. That period equals finality for him too. First off, he’s
having a baby. With the girl he CLAIMS he hates and can’t stand. Yet you
managed to create life…. interesting right? He tried to act so mad when he told
me, but I wasn’t buying it. I actually took Baby Boy to NYC over the holidays
and met my friends in the city, we had a ball hanging out, and that night Eden
showed up. He was enjoying our company and it hit me he was full of ish too. He
was trying to live two lives and just telling me everything I wanted to hear
and I was eating it right up. Not anymore, I told him I was going to send some
stuff to his little girlfriend to see how he would react. He acted like it was
no big deal, so I did it. The next day he called going off! Then he was calm
again like nothing happened. I laid his tail out for being a overall jerk. He
texted me on New Year’s Eve too. I responded, “Don’t text my phone!”
Eden: Oh really?
Eden: Copy!
Me: I left your ass in 2014, stay there!
That worked, until he called, I threatened to send the girl
more stuff and he stayed gone for about a week and a half. He texted me some BS
about how he still wasn’t messing with me but could I look over a resume for
his little cousin. NOT! I guess he thought I didn’t get the text so he called.
I rejected that too. I learned responses are no longer necessary for people you
have no intentions on speaking with again. Silence is golden!
Since all that happened, life has actually been kind of
sweet! Cam is Cam. Quite frankly I don’t even want to get in on him right now,
he has been holding up his end of this parenting thing though with a few
arguments here and there. But that’s Cam right!? Worsem self.
I met up with my college friends this past weekend and our
kids. We met in Washington D.C, got a room, and just hung out. I liked that. No
guys, no drama, we had a suite so we cooked dinner and drank wine and just
enjoyed each other. Pretty cool. I haven’t been around a lot of my friends here
actually. I skipped town as much as I could since I was off with Baby Boy so
the only person I actually saw regularly was Kendall, my ride or die lol. We
did have a Ugly Sweater Christmas Party. Turned out cute but I think next year
NO KIDS! Lol
Unfortunately, for you guys, there goes my drama, I let them
go and nowadays, life’s pretty pleasant!
There is one guy I speak to, but it’s NOTHING serious at the
moment at all, so I’m not even going to speak on it for now. We talk
occasionally throughout the week but that is about it, he doesn’t even live
near me. Therefore, I have definitely been focused more this year and I’m
loving it so far! I hope all is well with you all and that your New Year has
been great so far and if you haven’t seen SELMA yet it’s a MUST SEE!! Very
emotional and a great see to see how fortunate we are as African Americans, I
know everyone reading this isn’t African American, but you would still love it
I promise. It shows unity and just how far we have come as a Nation. Very
humbling for me! Check it out.
