Before I carry on let me clear something up. NOONE is around
Baby Boy. Deacon goes to our church so he sees him, but no one else I socialize
with is subjected to my child. I understand the importance of keeping that
separated.
My goal is to be more well-rounded with the blog. I suck at it
that much I am sure of, but I also don’t put forth all the effort and stay
consistent. The blogs I do like are great at that and that’s why I love them so
I am going to tell more of my regular life, and I’ll see how many people care
about that lol.
Tuesday was Wing Night at Hooters. I know they sell wings
everyday but they have a great “All you can eat” for $12.95 on Tuesdays so that
is usually when I partake. Kendall and I had been on the outs, so I invited her
to join me and Baby Boy. I wasn’t sure if she’d accept but she did. We have
been together a few times since out big blowout, the latest being a family
cookout last weekend, so we were semi back to normal. I got there first and
plopped in a booth with my kid. It was a rainy day out and Kendall had said she
would be there shortly.
She was 7 months pregnant and came wobbling in a few minutes
later, and I was surprised that I was so happy to see her. I talk a good game
but I’m sensitive at heart and I did miss my cousin!
“Ugh, I just cannot deal with this child’s father of mines”
she was not wasting anytime. A few months ago, we found out he had been
cheating. Like full blown in another relationship cheating. Kendall had broken
down terribly. They of course were expecting a baby, and were planning to move
in together before the baby came, so when we discovered this 2nd
life he was living it was pretty much a punch in the gut. She cut him off
completely though and so far had stuck with it, including blocking his number
and refusing to see him. That did not stop him from calling from other people’s
number. Just recently, she was out with friends and he had walked in with the
other girl. So it is evident he wasn’t as sorry as he claimed to be.
“What did he do now?” I asked sipping my water.
“He just got someone to call me, to tell me to call him, I don’t
know why he just won’t leave me alone!” she complained.
“I’m pretty sure that has something to do with you bring
preggo Ken” I laughed “But I wonder what he wants, he sure didn’t have anything
to say when you spotted him out the other week.
Kendall agreed as the server came over to get our order.
“I hung out with Cam this weekend,” I confessed.
“Snitching on yourself huh? That’s new, how’d that happen?”
Kendall inquired.
“He called me Saturday and honestly I felt dumb, I thought
he wanted to go out and I immediately got rude, but he wanted me to meet him at
the mall to get Baby Boy some spring and summer clothes. So we met up and
Kendall he went on a effing shopping spree for them both, I definitely felt
left out. In the end he did treat me to a mani and pedi tho” I grabbed a wing
as I filled her in.
“You are such a brat Jaycee, let the man be if you don’t
want him, especially since he’s doing better, you can’t lead him on, you could
have gotten your own mani and pedi!” Kendall lectured me.
I could have but he offered sheesh!
“Anyway” I rolled my eyes at her “we ended up hanging out
then Sunday he took us, and my mom out for breakfast, did some more shopping,
and even came and cooked dinner. It felt like old times I swear” I finished up.
“Oh so y’all played house, that’s cool, where was Deacon?”
she asked sarcastically.
“Idk, we haven’t spoken all weekend honestly. I mean a few texts
here and there, but we have really fallen off and he just doesn’t see a problem.
I missed church Sunday so I haven’t seen him, I sent him a text though, I told
him his plates full right now and there’s no room for me on it and he just
never responded. I can’t deal with his ish, he’s so difficult to communicate
with, and he really doesn’t care even though he swears he’s so in love and
appreciates me and all, so much BS with him!” I complained.
Kendall nodded. Everyone thought Deacon was a bit much, but
he was so perfect in the beginning, aren’t they all though?
“While we are on my guys, remember Wells Fargo, the one I don’t
like but is super nice?” I asked Kendall and she nodded “Well the other day I
checked in on him, he told me he had to evict his brother because he wasn’t paying
rent, so his brother ended up taking a lot of his things. He tried to get them
back and the brother wouldn’t return them, so he pressed theft charges or
something, you know I don’t know about any of that criminal stuff” I explained.
“Prob grand larceny especially if it was big items” Kendall
suggested.
I shrugged “I don’t know it was a bed and TV and some other
things, any who the brother, pressed charges too, only he lied and said that
Wells Fargo assaulted him, so they both have warrants now. This was like
reality TV to me so I offered to drop him off, the least I figured I could do.
Kendall he got arrested! He was out in a few hours but this is the effed up
part, he went to work the next day and they told him they had to let him go
because of it” I finished up.
“So he lost his job because of a lie? That is SO wrong on so
many levels” Kendall looked truly hurt like it was her. I laughed even though
it was far from funny.
“Well because they both work there, so I think the brother
said it happened at work, either way he blatantly lied. But, yeah definitely
messed up. I haven’t really spoken to him since tho, I still don’t like him
romantically but he’s a good person he didn’t deserve that” I said licking
sauce off my fingers. Gross? So what, their sauce is finger licking good!
We finished up dinner and went our separate ways. I got home
and gave Baby boy a bath and got him in bed and played around with my hair,
some show “Botched” came on the TV and grabbed my attention for a few and
before I knew it I had dozed off. I woke up and changed into my PJ’s and
decided to call it a night.
I checked my phone,
Deacon sometimes texted me on his breaks between class. No text. Sigh.
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